Comments on: How do you cure sexual performance anxiety, naturally?

By: Xtreme Poetess

Xtreme Poetess — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 00:17:59 +0000

i know you said you don’t want to hear about relaxing…but here’s the thing. i was with a guy and he had the same issues you’re having. he could get it up good…but he couldn’t let go. however..let me tell you something..he was the best out of the several lovers i’ve ever had. why? he got into it more. he did stuff they didn’t. there’s your answer. just forget about the performance anxiety. just enjoy her. believe me..before long it’ll happen. even if it doesn’t…throw yourself into it like nothing else. fact is..she might come away from it like i have with that guy..thinking you’re the best she ever had.
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life. when you throw your anxieties out the window and concentrate on what you’re doing…things get done.

By: Dale

Dale — Sun, 04 Oct 2009 23:49:59 +0000

Try masterbation to lower anxiety and excitability.
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By: Joe

Joe — Sun, 04 Oct 2009 23:05:59 +0000

By keeping yourself pure until the time of marriage. This is how you retain your integrity and manhood, while not having to worry about this silliness.

Men who worry about "performance" have been brainwashed by the modern world. This is not what life and love for women is all about. Women want men with strong character and a good heart, not those with a strong pelvic thrust. At least the ones who have half a brain.

Men err when they think women care about their ding-dongs or "performance."

Also, spend a lot of your spare time learning a valid martial art.
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By: just try

just try — Sun, 04 Oct 2009 22:54:59 +0000

Take it slow, maximize the foreplay until you’re so pent with sexual energy that the anxiety doesn’t seem to be there. This has worked for me.

Get worked up enough that the fear just can’t compare to the desire. Pent up probably means more passion as well. If you do it with that kind of passion, you’ve got nothing to worry about.

All the best.
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